You know, in this life there are upside down moment we usually experience. Sometimes I wonder why something happened to me. Did it happen because of me? Or it is other people that cause it. Did I get benefits of it? Or I just get hurt.

When we get something that we want, we never wonder why we get it. It’s like we think we deserve it. But when something bad happen, we cry, we curse, we say something bad. Human nature for loving the good thing and hate the bad thing but still sometimes bad thing bring good effect on us. As people always say, good medicine is usually bitter.

When something terrible happened to us, look on the bright side.

You didn’t get to the school that you applied? Maybe if you go there you can’t fit in.

You can’t get to go out with your friends? Maybe if you go something bad happen.

You can’t beat your brothers and sisters? Maybe it isn’t worth to do that.

You get scolded for not doing your school work? Well, that is your fault for being lazy.

So smile up and look ahead into your future. Not everything is on your side. So why worries? Just live your life and appreciate what you have.

Sister; what are you doing with my thing?
Little brother; I’m just looking.
Sister; don’t touch my thing!
Little brother; okay, okay, I put it back.

* bang! *

Sister; what is that sound?
Little brother; sorry! I didn’t mean it!
Sister; that’s why I don’t want you to touch my thing! Urgh!

Do you ever experience that? I bet some of you do. In fact I did too. It’s normal. That’s what we called family. Some of us my have a peaceful family with no fight like that, and there are some of us who might had a little siblings or parents problem. But, no matter how hate we are to our brother and sister, they are still our brother and sister and we can never change that.

So, if our siblings do something annoying, what are we suppose to do?

First, be patient. They are younger than us. Second, ignore them if they didn’t do something that bothers us. Third, if they did something that really annoy us; just say ‘could you play some where else’. They don’t listen to you? This is the fun part. Smile and say ‘I wonder where your PSP is?’ I do that all the time and it never fails me. It’s not a crime to be ‘evil’ sometime with your brother and sister.

What about problems with our parents?

Just talk to them. Discuss with them about your problem. As a parent, they will understand. If you can’t talk to them, ask other person to talk to them.

Bottom line, talk. Talk to someone whether they are your friends, parents, cousins, grandmother, grandfather, it doesn’t matter. Or just blog them. *wink*

What do you feel when you have a friends, but when you need them, they are not there for you?
What do you feel when you are the last person to know something about your friends?
What do you feel when your friends doesn’t act like one?

Well, I feel sad. Yes, all that actually happens to me. But I try to be more honest and reliable in friendship. Patient also plays a role. However, don’t keep things to yourselves. It might affect your friendship.

I talk as experience.

I had a close friend. She likes to do things that I hate. She loves to force me to do something that I don’t want to. But, unfortunately I kept it to myself and the next thing I know, she’s’ my enemy.

So, if you have friends, try to be their ears and shoulders so they can tell you their problems and they can count on you when they are in stress.